Amidst the stress of daily life, keeping the marriage fresh and exciting can be a challenging task. But need not worry, there are small deeds that you can perform to keep your husband happy and let him know that you love him more and more each day.
Due to official stress and familiar responsibilities, the desire to romance may fade as the marriage progresses. But never let the flame of love and passion diminish. Make sure to save time for romantic activities like candle-light dinners, small stroll at sunset and cuddling up while watching a movie.
Spice Up Your Sex Life
Don’t get stuck in a boring routine. If you and your hubby are used to having sex without any foreplay or wooing beforehand, sex can become just another activity that happens when you get in bed. Take the time to woo each other at spontaneous times to avoid feeling like you have allotted time for being intimate. Listen to your hubby’s desires and try to fulfill them. Don’t act dramatic.
Set a date night
Between you and your hubby’s busy schedules, it can be very hard to find time to spend with each other. So, make a commitment to go on date every weekend or cook meal together at least once a week. Take some time out to watch a romantic movie together. You can also go for a walk after dinner. Doing workout with each other can also be helpful.
Ring the Taste Buds
It is believed that the path to a man’s heart goes through his stomach. So, to express your love and affection, try to cook the meal of his choice at least once in a week. Surprise him with his loved food items in the lunch box.
Flirting Can Be Fruitful
Sometimes sending a spontaneous-flirty text or voice message to your lover can be the easiest thing to make him smile. Call just to say ‘I love you’ or send your hubby a flirty message that contains something for him to look forward to. Send sexy snap chats to remind what’s waiting for him after work. Make sure to warn him that you sent a sexy snap in advance so that he doesn’t open it in front of his friends or colleagues. Put a video or website link on his facebook page to something that has a special meaning to your relationship. This could be the music video to a love song or a clip of your favorite comedy show, to name a few. Leave notes expressing your love and sexual desires.
As humans, we’re all going to have good days and bad days. So, when your husband has a bad day in office and needs someone to share his feelings with, be the first person to lend a helping hand. Listen to him without interrupting and console him that the misunderstandings and difficulties would be sorted out soon. Stroke his hair and hug him to show that he is not alone.
Maintain Your Looks
Don’t take your looks and figure for granted after marriage, as it may soon cause your husband lose interest in you. Go for regular work-outs and light make-up to look attractive. It should also be noted that, exercise may help your body release endorphins, a neurotransmitter that reduces stress and induces happiness. This can not only give you a glowing skin, but also prove useful in increasing sexual desire.